By Livi Erickson
Despite a growing number of computer science related jobs, there is still a pretty good chance that in some point in your life, you will be faced with a career opportunity too good to pass up – and it might be in a new location. Not only do you have to worry about the job itself – moving and getting settled into a new part of the country (or world!) can be challenging and stressful. I spent all three of my summers during college at an internship in Seattle, Washington – which happened to be on the other side of the country from where I had spent my entire life.
Each one was unique, but there was definitely a lot to get adjusted to, and by the third time around, I finally felt like I was prepared for what seemed like the inevitable move to the Emerald City when I graduated. Imagine my surprise when I found out just three months before starting work that I’d actually be relocating to San Francisco!
When you relocate for a job, you are making a huge lifestyle change and should be prepared for that. Luckily, there are ways to make it a little bit easier, especially if you are making the leap and joining a community that is known for being “tech friendly”.
1. If you’re joining a big company right out of college, take advantage of the intern or new hire programs that they may offer – and if they don’t have any, consider reaching out to a recruiter or manager to see whether or not you can start one! Companies like Microsoft, IBM, and Amazon each hold various events for their interns and recent grads to connect them with other new employees who may be in a similar situation. Smaller companies might not have specific programs in place, but you can usually talk to someone in HR and ask them to email people who might be interested if you plan a dinner or happy hour someplace. They should have a list of employees who they can pass on information to – all you need to do is ask!
2. Join a developer meetup or attend local hackathons and conferences. When I first moved to San Francisco, I didn’t know a single person outside of my coworkers, so I got to work applying for conferences and hackathons. Not only will you get to meet new people, but you can often work on interesting projects, win prizes, and network with all sorts of professionals. Several cities offer women’s dinners (such as the Girl Geek Dinners Series) which are a great way to meet with new people in a low-stress setting – and you get some good career advice out of them!
3. Take classes in areas that interest you at local universities or community centers. Interested in learning a new programming language or brush up on your entrepreneurial skills? Many colleges will offer extended learning classes for non-students to get a chance to learn from the university professors in various areas that can complement your formal degree. If you’re a passionate lifelong learner, these courses can introduce you to new people in your area, and you get to learn new things! Not feeling up to committing to an entirely new course? Most colleges will also offer free seminars and give talks open to the public in the evenings.
4. Consider joining a volunteer organization in your area. What better way to help make your own adjustment to a new area than by helping out others? See if there are local programs that target getting youth interested in STEM and volunteer to work with them to do science experiments or teach the basics of writing code in a kid-friendly language such as Scratch. You’ll get to sharpen your technical skills, meet other like-minded people who are volunteering with you, and you’ll be helping get kids interested in pursuing technical careers! Try out your local Boys and Girls club, scouting troops, or elementary schools to look for opportunities, or ask your coworkers if any of them support organizations who are looking for help. One of the most rewarding experiences I had shortly after moving was helping with a Girl’s Day science event, and I had a chance to get to get to know more people at my office through it, too!
5. Use social media to your advantage by joining Facebook groups for your area and checking nearby trends on Twitter for cool events to attend. Some sites, like meetup.com, are designed to help you find groups of people with similar interests and plan events, while others are more general and can just help you make new connections. The benefit of social media is that you can talk to other people before committing to anything, which can help make things less awkward if you’re like me and occasionally feel anxious when meeting new people.
6. Last but not least – say yes to any invitations that come your way! If a coworker invites you to trivia, GO! It might feel strange to “hang out” with people you work with, especially if you are a new college graduate, but you’re probably going to be spending 40 hours a week with some of these people, and becoming friends with them makes work more enjoyable. You’ll also get to potentially try new things, and the experiences that you’ll get can surprise you. One of the best ways to bond with new people is by doing things that are a little outside of your comfort zone, so don’t overthink things and be willing to try something new. Who knows – you might even discover a new passion!
Of course, even if you’re incredibly social, it can still be a rough adjustment phase, especially if you’re in a different state (or country!) as the rest of your friends and family. For me, I got through this by making sure to have regular phone calls with my loved ones – being able to video chat made it much easier to feel like they were still nearby. Keep in mind that it can take an average of 2 or 3 years to truly feel settled in a new place, so ensure that you are also setting a new routine and staying active. If you’re up for it, consider finding roommates when you move so that you have a few other people around to kickstart a social circle in your new location.
Have you relocated for a job before? What helped you adapt in your new place?
Livi graduated from Virginia Tech with a degree in Computer Science in 2013 and is currently working as a program manager at Microsoft. When she’s not in front of a computer screen, she enjoys practicing yoga, cooking, and reading.You can follow her @misslivirose and LinkedIn.










